IN THIS ARTICLE:
- If your friend expresses thoughts of suicide on social media, don’t ignore them.
- Get help by connecting him or her to free and confidential Guard resources.
- You can also reach to safety teams on Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube to get your friend the support they need.
You may encounter a drill buddy or friend posting thoughts of suicide on social media sites like Facebook or Twitter. It’s very important to take the post seriously.
IS YOUR FRIEND SHOWING THESE POTENTIAL WARNING SIGNS?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, try to get your friend help immediately.
- Posting about wanting to die or to kill oneself?
- Posting about feeling hopeless or having no reason to live?
- Posting about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain?
- Posting about being a burden to others?
- Posting about seeking revenge?
CONNECT YOUR FRIEND TO CONFIDENTIAL GUARD RESOURCES
The first thing you’ll want to do is reach out to your friend and ask them if they’re okay. Often people in crisis need someone to talk to. Remember to listen and be supportive.
Not sure what to say? Try reading Buddy Check for tips to talk about suicide with your friend.
The next thing is to let your friend know that there are confidential Guard resources available to help. You can either call one of these resources on your friend’s behalf or send your friend the contact information below.
- Psychological Health Coordinator (PHC) A Psychological Health Coordinator is someone you can talk to confidentially about your problems—big or small. To find a Psychological Health Coordinator (PHC) in your state or territory, search the dropdown list by state.
- Chaplain Another option is to talk with a chaplain. They’re not in your chain of command, so you’ll find a safe, neutral space to figure things out. Most chaplains have training in counseling and they have a good sense of the stresses and strains of Guard life. Contact a chaplain in your state.
- Military Crisis Line Consider contacting the Military Crisis Line (1-800-273-8255) and Press 1) if you’re concerned about a friend. You can call 24/7 to get free, confidential support to help connect your friend with the care they need.
- CO Another option is to talk to your CO.
CONTACT THE SAFETY TEAMS ON SOCIAL MEDIA SITES
If your friend continues to post alarming messages or you don’t feel comfortable reaching out to them directly, you can contact the following social media safety teams for help.
Once you contact the site (see below), a safety team member will direct message your friend and connect him or her to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a call center dedicated to helping individuals who think or talk about suicide.
- You can anonymously report someone who is showing warning signs on Facebook. A member of Facebook’s Safety Team will send the user an e-mail with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline number.
- Fill out the form to send an e-mail to Twitter to report someone who is showing warning signs and select “Report Self-Harm” in the dropdown list. Twitter will send the user a direct message with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline number.
- To report suicidal content, click on the flag icon under a video and select “Harmful Dangerous Acts” and then “Suicide or Self-Injury.” YouTube will then review the video and may send a message to the user that uploaded the video with the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline number.
- If you’re feeling stressed about how to talk to a friend displaying suicide warning signs, you can confidentially reach out to a PHC, chaplain, or CO. These professionals can offer guidance on how to help.
- In crisis? Reaching out is a sign of strength. Visit our crisis support page for confidential help.